“When I have enough”
is the most expensive sentence
you keep saying.
A free 8-day experiment for the woman who’s done choosing by price
before she’s even decided what she wants.
We Begin September 25
What if money was never the problem?
What if somewhere along the way, you handed money the power to decide what you can want, what you can choose, and when you’re finally allowed to exhale?
Because I know that feeling.
I know the chokehold.
Opening your bank account and feeling your whole body tighten up.
Wanting something and immediately talking yourself out of it.
Making more.
Having a cushion.
Doing the “responsible” thing.
And somehow still ending up back in the same loop:
There’s never going to be enough.
For years, I had the version of financial safety I thought I was supposed to want.
The corporate executive role. The stable income. The MBA. The Certified Financial Planner background. The plan. From the outside, it looked like I had made it. But inside, I knew I couldn’t stay.
So I did what responsible me knew how to do. I prepared. For an entire year, I hired the coach. I looked at the beliefs. I got clear on where I was going. I made the plan behind the plan.
And at the beginning of January 2022, I set three goals that felt almost impossible:
My bonus would be paid early.
I would have a financial cushion.
I would be in a relationship that felt financially stable.
And they all had to happen by December 31st. Somehow… they did.
So on January 17th, 2023, I left corporate.
I thought that was the proof.
Proof that I could trust myself.
Proof that I had done it right.
Proof that I was safe enough to choose what I actually wanted.
And then six days later, my partner at the time came home and told me he had quit his job.
He had walked into HR, returned his things, and left.
No preparation.
No conversation.
No plan.
And in one sentence, the whole structure I thought made me safe was gone.
The cushion, the credential, and the money knowledge were still there.
But my nervous system did not care that I had an MBA.
Because the real work was never just knowing how money worked. It was learning how to stay with myself when the plan changed.
When the number changed.
When someone else made a choice I couldn’t control.
When the future I thought I had secured suddenly didn’t feel so secure anymore.
That’s why I created LOADED.
Because I don’t believe the answer is just more financial information.
I had the information, the background, and I knew the rules.
But money was still showing me the places I didn’t feel free.
So for 8 days, we’re going where strategy alone never could: your body, your beliefs, your words, your self-trust — because money gets to be part of the conversation, but it does not get to outrank your knowing.
The Old Conversation→The LOADED Way
You know that moment when you open your bank account and suddenly you’re not the same woman you were five minutes ago? Or when you want something — the trip, the support, the space, the next level — and suddenly you’re negotiating against yourself like it’s your job? That’s the moment we’re going into.
Shame it. Make it mean something terrible about you. Let it run the room quietly, unexamined.
Actually see what’s running the conversation — so it stops running you.
That’s LOADED.
This is for you if…
You can feel the charge money still has.
In what you choose.
What you ask for.
What you let yourself want.
What you postpone.
And what you make mean something about you.
You’re not new to growth.
You’re not waiting for someone to save you.
And you’re not here because you need to be fixed.
You’re here because you’re ready to stop letting money have more power than you actually want it to have.
In the decisions you delay.
The conversations you avoid.
The support you struggle to receive.
The desires you negotiate down before you’ve even let them fully exist.
You don’t need another person telling you to budget better, manifest harder, or be more grateful for what you have.
You’re ready to see the moment money becomes the authority — so you can come back to yourself and choose from the part of you that already knows.
This is not a course you need to keep up with.
It’s 8 days of getting inside the exact places money has been running the conversation — in your thoughts, your body, your language, your decisions, your receiving, and the way you let yourself want.
- Day 1The Lens You InheritedWhere did you learn to let money decide first?
- Day 2Clear the ChannelYou can’t load what’s already full.
- Day 3Watch Your MouthYour words will show you who’s actually in charge.
- Day 4The Open HandThere’s a way to want things that doesn’t feel like need.
- Day 5Something Bigger Than YouThis was never just about the thing.
- Day 6The Thing Underneath the ThingThe price is rarely the real reason you’re pausing.
- Day 7Become LOADEDBe her before the number changes.
We go all the way in together — coaching, conversation, integration, and actually applying this to the places money is showing up in your real life.
The LOADED Switch — A 3-minute belief shift for the exact moment you feel yourself contract.
And yes. It’s free. All of it.
This is what starts to happen when money stops being this heavy, secret thing running the room.
So cool! I’ve listened up until day 4 so far. I’ll catch up soon. It’s been a great reminder of a lot of the lessons from Rich + Relaxed. It also has been a great opportunity to remind myself how I am speaking, thinking, and accepting money on a day to day basis. Not just money but in every choice. I was given a gift recently unexpectedly and I found myself accepting it with ease and gratitude. I did not push back or think about if I deserved it, I didn’t over-thank my way out of receiving it — this is growth for me 🙏 It’s all been great information once again. Love it!
Another thing that was like “oof, I needed to hear that” was the Watch Your Mouth VN. Definitely felt called out around the language I use around spending money, especially when I’m on this side of the world, because I’m so used to the Asian standard of pricing… but I’m working on those reframes! It was just this morning when my partner made a joke about being broke this year, and I told him he should stop using that language 🤣
Let money be FUN!!! LOADED reminded me for 7 days money can be light, flow, and fun energy!
And yes — one woman booked the solo trip she’d been talking herself out of for years, and another found a level of self-worth she said she didn’t know if she’d ever felt.
This is what the work does — not because money magically becomes meaningless, but because you stop letting it be the thing that decides who you get to be.